Gratitude: Your Quickest Access to a "Third Place"

In my own journey of healing, I’ve learned that building connections is essential. One surprising key? Gratitude. Even if you can’t thank someone directly, the act of expressing gratitude strengthens mental and emotional bonds.

Sociologists Oldenburg and Brissett coined the term “Third Place” to describe spaces beyond work and home where we gather voluntarily—think bowling leagues, book clubs, local coffee houses, or bars.

Interestingly, a 2022 study found that many university students prefer large-chain coffee shops as their third place. This makes Joe Pine's insights on how commoditization impacts Starbucks’ role in the experience economy even more striking.

After my conversation with Matt Poepsel, PhD about gratitude on his podcast last week, I noticed an intriguing connection between three big ideas: connection, the experience economy, and third places. At the heart of it all? Gratitude.

Here’s the beauty of gratitude—it’s accessible. It takes just a few moments, can happen anytime, is endlessly repeatable, and has no cost. Whether you’re in your living room or hanging out at your local coffee shop, you can engage in it today.

Your turn: What’s a third place in your life that has brought you joy? Who or what are you grateful for right now? 

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